Back in 2001-2002, the whole idea seemed outrageous to me.
When an online friend suggested it, I was appalled. It seemed so much like a
punishment at first blush. But after a few months, curiosity got the better of
me when I realized this was a voluntary sort of thing, and could not only be
erotic in its own right, it's a very real demonstration of trust and/or
submission.
I bought a CB2000 in hopes that it would re-ignite some
passion within my ex-wife. It didn't work, and the marriage ultimately failed in
2004 for a lot of unrelated reasons. But that is another story.....
Though the marriage had failed, I still loved the erotic
notion of surrendering that most special experience with someone new.
Ultimately I found that special partner, and started a business basically to
share how wonderful this whole phenomena is!
Giving someone the key to your manhood is more than
submission - it's an ultimate expression of trust that inherently heightens
intimacy between the chastised and the keyholder.
They say when a person loses the sense of sight or hearing,
that other senses are heightened to more-or-less compensate for the loss.
Similarly, when the ability to orgasm is surrendered to another, the kiss, the
hug, the touch, the smell, (and the taste) of the keyholder become so much more
highly valued that (at times, at least) I feel like I never need to orgasm
again!
To experience it is to enjoy it. Always remember it is
voluntary, and a total expression of trust. It can always be removed, one way
or another. Some devices are more difficult than others.
If you have a satisfying relationship already and can't
imagine it ever being better on any level, than male chastity is not for you.
For anyone else, we're here to help at lockeduplove!